Real quick…This is my first blog as
a parent contributor to the fabulous LLA Therapy team. I am
flattered that the LLA VIPs have
welcomed me and my comical life’s perspectives regarding the land of special
needs, disabilities, and the wide variety of labels that I am adorned with on
my “varsity” jacket. I am a professional in the field of disabilities as well
as being the proud owner of a kiddo with his own IEP. I’d offer you an IEP copy
to read and a bowl of popcorn but that would defeat my goal of you liking me as
a blogger.
So, let’s talk turkey. We are a few weeks away from
gatherings with family and friends. Some of you are excited and some of you
would like to click the ruby slippers to land in the month of January as fast
as possible. Wherever you fall on the holiday anxiety spectrum, I am hopeful
that the following tips will prove to be insightful for you. Enjoy and Happy
Thanksgiving!
If you are also the proud owner of a child who
appears “different” as a result of their disabilities, you have a few considerations.
I have dealt with Gtube feeding my son at baptisms and have dealt with watching
him fixate on flags in front yards because he likes how they feel and look when
the wind blows on patriotic holidays. These are some of the things that have
made my family and friends go hmmm. These things have also been frustrating for
me as I have navigated between trying to sit with a glass of wine to catch up
with people and chase my son from the
table that he is expected to sit at as a member.
So with Thanksgiving coming, how can a parent like
me possibly consider the gravy boat as “half full”? How can I avoid feeling the need to pour the
gravy (lukewarm of course) over my son’s head and leave the gathering in a
huff? The answers to these questions vary. Ultimately, effective communication
and honesty with your fellow party goers are the critical elements to embrace
and not avoid this time of year. Staying silent about your child’s needs will
not help.
